Always do what you are afraid to do

Treat Yourself like others

We all have the habit of saying- I love my Mom, I love my Dad, I love my friends stuff like that...

Have you loved yourself? If yes, How much do you love yourself?

Both mentally and physically

For admiring and loving ourselves, we have to treat ourselves like others

If we have done anything wrong, we will think how idiotic I was

If the same thing was done by others we will not say how idiotic you are, instead we will convey that in a pleasant way(comforting)

Isn't it?

So, treat yourself like others

1. Try to forgive yourself

2. Accept your imperfections

3. Don't be harsh on yourself

When you treat yourself like you would treat others, you begin to blossom in a way you never thought possible

When you take care of your mind, body, & soul, you are able to serve and love others in a way that comes from true love and joy.

I truly believe that if we want to change the world, it starts with us..

A wish to change the world

Everything changes, Nothing is permanent! Seems old though, but it is an inevitable truth

Before December 2019, have we ever thought Mask will be a saviour for us

Earlier, we have used letter to communicate. We all know how it has changed drastically now

Everyone wants some changes to be happen to make their life beautiful

But what if you get an opportunity to change anything in this World

I wish to change people hatred towards fellows based on their religion, Caste, or any stupid reason

Reason why I wish to change that is -

Because we are hating co-workers, co-passengers, friends, teachers, doctors, politicians, actors, families and etc..due to various reasons

One of the main reason or overall reason we dislike people are the aspect of human cognition to see the world through one’s own eyes

Even those of us who try to have a healthy tolerance of different viewpoints occasionally catch ourselves thinking

How in the world can you believe what you’re saying?

Disagreements can manifest as outright dislike

Similarly, people can have habits that irritate you — they’re a downer, don’t shut up, are distracted, condescending, or insincere

But it's their character or individuality.

Hating them for this is insane in my point of view

How frequent our misunderstandings, problems, loneliness, arrogance, sufferings, suicides, frauds, cruelties, how eager we are to kill one another and blame eachother on this tiny-dot in the vast cosmic arena??

So, we are very basically a minute tiny particle in this universe, why hating other tiny particles due to stupid reasons.

Spread love and happiness around you

Try to stay in present

Humans are very similar to computer where we can store data

But we can delete some of the past data in computer else in human brain we cannot delete our past memories

Because of our inability to erase past memories, we tend to revaluate events that happened in past

We can easily categorize past events as happy one and sad one

Analyzing the events happened in past is good

It allows us to possibly understand better. What happened? What should we have done better?

Regardless of what we think that we should have done, we can’t do it now. Similarly we can’t go back and find happiness there in our happy events

We can only gain knowledge and experience from those events

Reliving the past can be addictive and dangerous

So analyze past events to understand the situation better, use those knowledge in future events

But try to stay in the present because you can only analyze past not undoing(CTRL+Z) it..

Have we expressed ourselves

Expressing ourselves is not about voicing your opinion about how you feel about something..

It is about really being honest with who you are, what you want to say, how you want to dress, what you want to do...

Seems easy, but it is not that easy to express ourselves in this world there are always some persons waiting to react for our actions

But why do we care about those?

Why can’t we just look inside our hearts where all the answers are already there

There is a voice that is constantly talking to us and we need to listen to it in terms of decisions that we make every day from what to wear, where to go, how to be, what to say and who to be with

We are unique and there is not one single person in the world like us,, So we have to act out our uniqueness and celebrate it every day

People love who you are and will appreciate you even more if you stand out and stay true to yourself

We always feel afraid while making decisions whether they will appreciate or accept our decisions in life?

Why caring about others in making our decision- get over it and keep moving forward with what is in our heart

I think one of the most important aspects of living most balanced and beautiful life is to express ourselves in a way that makes the world understand and appreciate how authentic and unique we really are

Express yourself!

Being a optimistic person

Optimistic or being an optimist, means that you hope and expect favorable results;
Everyone wants our life to move in a smooth way; Nobody wants to face failures and poor results

Everyone is expecting good things to happen for them; then everyone in this world is optimistic only

Then why this phrase Be a optimistic person

Feels strange.....Just a simple concept needed to understand it

Let us consider cricket for example;

Every batsman want to score runs, centuries like that in every match...

They are optimistic in their approach

But in reality, no cricketer in this world scores 100 runs(century) in all the matches he/her played

We have to be balanced in our optimistic approach

If we face failures,

Instead of being in a negative mode, we need to learn from it and be in a positive mode to succeed again

A balanced optimist can see the good and the bad, but at the same time, expects success, and puts forth effort to make things turn out well.

Real optimism means facing difficulties and problems without fear.

It means believing that you can solve them. With this attitude you seek solutions with confidence, cheerfulness and a positive attitude

Be a balanced optimistic person...

Appreciation is appreciated

Appreciation!! beautiful word which can do magic...

Like after reading this blog, if readers commented as Super, Great like these....It will give extra motivation for me to write several quality blogs

Everyone in this world wants to get appreciated by others

It's not a big deal to appreciate, just a two word is enough Great work

You may think what this two words can do?

It can do wonders

When our work is valued, our satisfaction and performance rises and we feel purpose Feeling genuinely appreciated makes us feel secure, which is what empowers us to do our best work.

If a person takes the time to express their heart-felt appreciation for something we have done, it makes us feel good about what we do. It builds our self-confidence, self-esteem and our entire self-image. It gives us energy and motivation to work harder and do more

When we don’t feel valued we wonder if we are doing a good job. We may even worry if we are at risk of losing our job. We lose our sense of purpose if we believe what we do isn’t important enough to be noticed and appreciated.

Purpose is powerful!

Doing work or anything with purpose is different with doing work without purpose

Hence, appreciate the good works around you... Appreciation is appreciated

Good things about ourselves?

Saturday morning....no work so just decided to watch movies...While watching one particular movie, I was feeling ashamed after hearing one dialogue...

Guess what the dialogue is Tell something good about yourself

The character in the movie was unable to answer exactly like me...

Then I realized that I haven't done much good things to remember....

So, what I have done for the past 24 years... Feeling really ashamed of me

Asked myself a few questions to understand what I'm doing wrong in my life

Have I followed my heart

Have I treated every one good

I couldn't answer the questions...

Atleast I had the opportunity to know about this - how badly I'm living my life and I will change it from now

Try to explore life, be generous to all and Have a nice life....Have something to answer the question Tell something good about yourself

Have we judged ourselves?

We all have the habit of criticize or judging others...For some reason, we love to judge other people.

Judgment can really be an ugly thing

He is jealous, She is rude...She don't have skills..

This is how we will judge others based on their actions or whatever info we know about them

Judging others is simply pointing out their inability..

Judging others is easy because it distracts us from the responsibility of judging ourselves

Have we judged ourselves????

Universal truth/answer for this will be NO

Why we are not judging ourselves, because we fear that there are so much negative about us

Look everyone cannot be 100%, there will be some fluctuations..

People hardly realize their own mistakes; instead we strive to point out someone else’s

How to judge ourselves:

Very simple, ask few questions to yourself on a daily basis

Questions are,

Have u accepted your negative traits

Have u taken responsibility of your bad actions

Have u evaluated yourself as a human being?

What will people will tell about you

Have u apologized for your mistakes

If you are able to answer honestly and still feel good about yourself..

Hats off.. You are the genuine person in the world

If not, instead of judging others, keep judging you on a regular basis and try to become the best person

We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation.

So judge less, accept more, and restore your happiness

Learn from Kohli

Virat Kohli is the most followed cricketer on Instagram, with a fan base of over 101 million

There are hundreds of cricketers playing for India and performing great, but still majority of the people loves Kohli....

Can u predict the reason for it?.

It's not because of the runs scored, records broken, series won, strategies in planning a dismissals..

It's truly his passion towards cricket which makes us to admire him

Virat is the best suitable example for us to understand,

Passion drives everything, when we are passionate in doing whatever things we will give our 110% of our energy & time in it..

When you look at champions in any sports what do they all have in common?

Skills..

Of course, but ultimately it’s passion that truly drives them.

There are hundreds of examples of wasted talent in virtually every industry, and that’s mostly due to a lack of passion or the drive to succeed

Be passionate in doing whatever u do,

If you have, then nobody can stop you being the most successful person in the field

Similarly in work environment, there are many resourceful employees but there are few passionate employees working.....

Resourceful employees can produce results but passionate employees can create/develop new ideas

Clearly, passionate employees are worth their weight in gold.

Although there are many qualities that make for a successful and desirable employee, passion is the one trait that can make the most difference in both employee output and commitment to your organization.

Who knows, a truly passionate employee may even spur others in your company to find passion in their jobs too. Who wouldn’t want that?

Be passionate...

People with passion can make the impossible happen

Do we listen well

Do we have better listening capacity....

Question seems strange. Isn't it? But seriously

Do we have better listening capacity

I will list few types/categories of listening...

After reviewing those answer the question(Do we have better listening capacity) to yourself

You will came to know why I have asked this....

Listening to things we know

Most of us will fall under this category only...What we will do while listening about information which we already know...

We will not allow the speaking person to complete

We’re listening just to think up how to respond. They’re not hearing

In fact, sometimes, this isn’t listening at all. Like when someone says something about cricket, and they jump on it, talking everything they know about cricket, their favorite team, players, whatever

Listening to things we don't know

Here we will start listening with curiosity, hoping to learn,

But still we will ask questions interrupting the speaker

Still, however, it’s still really all about us because our questions are just collecting factual data. “How many people were there?” “What was it like?” “How did it go?” Then what?...

End result same.. We will not allow the speaking person to complete

Listening for feelings and needs

Here we go..

This kind of listening is more than self-affirmation or fact collecting. It’s paying attention to understand what’s going on with the other person, in the moment.

This kind of listening takes time, patience, and is deepened by questions such as Why? How? And Who? -- to help the person get to the heart of the matter

Very few will come under this category of listening...

Now try to answer the question(Do we have better listening capacity)

For most of us, including me the answer is No...

Listen -- not for what you want to talk about, to offer advice, or to try to think of a smart-sounding response -- but as a way to help others get to what they really want to say.

Mother, great negotiator

Everyone in this world, are negotiating with others for different purposes...

Like employee negotiating with HR for salary increment, salesman negotiating with customers & vice-versa

One common feature of negotiations is that each party has the ability to walk away

Don’t like the offer the car salesperson is making you? Drive another five minutes to the next dealership

Don’t like the terms a business partner presents you with? Get in touch with another supplier

Negotiation within family members is really hard rather with customers/clients/partners...Because you cannot walk away

Instead of walking away,

you have to make a balanced negotiation decision that suits both of the members

I strongly believe every mother has a better negotiation strategies and techniques...

Can u remember how our mother negotiated with us to eat extra, play little, read more....

Somehow they have managed and negotiated us in a efficient way..

If you analyze the strategies and techniques they employed...you can become a better negotiator and earn more money using that

They will employ below strategies/techniques,

i) Choice:

They will give u a better choice to negotiate...

Say If u want to play 1 hour in Monday evening they will negotiate by saying u can play 4 hours on Sunday

ii) Demanding & excessive:

They will demand something and offer extra which we want

Say If u want 5 chocolates they will negotiate as if u read 5 pages today, I will give u 6 chocolates,..

something like that..

Beware of mother's negotiations😅..

No, that can't be done they will come up with innovative ideas to negotiate us easily

What If Aadhar had a conversation

Imagine Aadhar having a conversation with people

Aadhar- Why you guys are constantly blaming me for having your Biometric information

People- You will misuse my biometric info

Aadhar- But products like Apple, Samsung also have your biometric info people - Someone can steal biometric details from them also

Aadhar -But why do you criticize me always? I only take it once from you. But Apple and other products
take the fingerprint and eye scan daily

People- Someone can steal these biometric details from you

Aadhar- Actually Apple and other products save every information on their backup Server

People - It is costly, So my data is safe but you are not secured

Aadhar- Do you know, FBI took data from Apple

People added Apple, Samsung, and others...

Apple, Samsung, and others- What is the problem guys?

Aadhar- You are also taking people's biometric info and in addition, you are taking their data as well.
But people are blaming me only

People- We don't believe in you

Apple, Samsung, and others removed People

Apple, Samsung, and others- Because you are Indian and possessed by Indian people who always blame their own Government and technologies(products). But We are non-Indian brands!

They believe foreign products are better than Indian products..
People give money and give all details like Location, GPS, Contacts, Biometric data, every other thing to us.

Aadhar- You are removing them and saying this

Apple, Samsung, and others- Actually We added ourselves(People didn't add us)😜😜...We can do whatever we want with them..Still, they will buy us and provide their biometric info

Aadhar- What the hell!!!!! Why?

Apple, Samsung, and others- We are costly. People believe if one product is costly; the quality of that product is also high. Poor guys!!

Aadhar- When will people realize this

Apple, Samsung, and others- If they start to realize we will not be existing in India

Aadhar- So I and other Indian products have to wait for that moment...

Apple, Samsung, and others - Guess what it will take centuries...😜😜

Apple, Samsung, and others added people

Apple, Samsung, and others- Technical fault my people

People - It's ok Apple, Samsung, and others

People - Where we left,,,,, Got it...Information in Aadhar is not secured

Apple, Samsung, and others - Nothing to say Aadhar...

Aadhar left the conversation

Data scraping introduction

We are living in this world where we are in need of lots of information on a daily basis...

Consider yourself in a situation where you want to know about used car dealerships in your location so that you can buy the product from the dealership company and resell it to individual and you are earning money from it

What you need to do for this process---You have to collect the information about the dealerships and record it so that you can use it to buy the products from them

How do you collect information?

You will think collecting information is easy. Yes, the process is easy for collecting info. But what if you want to collect lakhs of information...You cannot google it and enter the data manually for storage..You need the information to be collected automatically rather than manually. Because collecting information manually is a tedious process

Data scraping-Extracting information from the website

The process of extracting information automatically/programmatically from websites is said to be data extraction. Scraping is used for extracting a large amount of data from websites. Specific data is gathered and copied from the web, typically into a central local database or spreadsheet, for the purpose of analysis

We need to know about two terminologies while learning about data scraping.

1.Scarper bot

Code which used to extract the information from websites

2.Data scraper

User designing the scraper bot to extract data

Process of scraping:

First, the Data scraper designs Scarper bot which sends an HTTP GET request to a specific website.

When the website responds, the scraper parses the HTML document for a specific pattern of data.

Once the data is extracted, it is converted into a specific format that scraper bot’s needed.

Scraping can be a powerful tool. If it is in the right hand, it automates the gathering of information and using it legally. In the wrong hands, it can lead to theft of intellectual property/information and using it illegally

Even Facebook registered complained about scraping of data from Facebook against two companies in the US...Those companies scraped data from Facebook and used those data to sell marketing intelligence to third parties.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COeMzrSYgvw

How can we prevent from Data scraping?

*Usage of CAPTCHAs for high-volume requesters

* Limiting the maximum number of requests a particular IP address able to make over a period of time

* Using an advanced bot management solution that can help websites eliminate access for scraper bots almost completely.

So data scraping is a powerful way of business but it depends on who is using it and why they are using it...

Focus on the process

What will you do if you want to go to the terrace in your house...We have to climb each and every stair to reach the terrace...Another way is to use the lift to reach the terrace

The first way is like the conventional or hardworking way...The second way is a modern or smart working way...

But ultimately to reach the terrace we have to do the process by climbing stairs or using lift...

So Focus on the process; not the result...Results can either be a positive or negative way. The result is not in our hands but the process to achieve the result is in our hands

So success or defeat is just a result. What is important is the quality of the fight.

Do not think about what will be the result instead think about the process. Split the process into steps and work hard for those steps and achieve the result according to the hard work you put into those steps.

Anything can be achieved if we are able to break the goal into smaller parts. Break down the task into smaller pieces and achieve smaller pieces one by one to achieve the task.

If you want to reduce your weight, what will we do?- We will focus on the process i.e diet and nutrition. To do the process we need to break it as...at 1 month I have to reduce ____ calories at 2nd month I have to reduce____ calories...That's how we will reduce weight...

Similarly in life to achieve something break it into the smaller process and Focus on the process

If you are playing football,,, Don’t worry about winning that game. Focus on the training that you need to do for that match,, the win will come to you automatically

As I am a blogger I should not think about the views count of my blog instead I should think about the quality of the post

Life is always about Moving forward

Average age of human in this world is 72 years...which is exactly 26,280 days...

Nowadays we often hear the word called ''Moved on'''...This word is applicable to everyone in this world...Some may have lost their parents, Some will lose their friends after schooling, Some will lose their lovable ones and etc...etc...Had they all ''Moved on''?---The answer is no...

Still we will have the memories of the ones whom we lost. Because our brain is not like a computer where we can erase the information that we want to erase. Then how everyone says that they had ''Moved on''

The fact is they had not ''Moved on'' instead they had ''Moved forward'''.. They feel for the ones whom they had lost and grieved for them...

Through out our life we have been losing people or relationship consistently...like we missed our childhood friends, college friends ,our beloved one and our parents...Yes we have to grieve for them but what will we do if we have not lost them...

We will share our happiness and sadness with them and we will comfort each other . That's what they also wanted us to have when they leaved from this world...

Ted talk

Unfortunately time always move forwards....So we cannot able to travel back...So if they are gone it means they are physically gone but they are living in our memories...So we are just moving forward in life

So ''Moving on'' is not a sin....Oh sorry ''Moved forward'' is not a sin..

Move forward in life because we ae going to have less than 26,280 days in our life

Life is simple,Don't Complicate it

Since i had named this blog title as "Life is simple,Don't Complicate it" It is not necessary for me to talk about life. I can convey any info in this blog because this is my blog. No one would kill me for writing irrelevant content in this blog. Again this is my blog so i can write whatever i want...

Likewise Life is also exactly the same. You can do whatever you want..because that is your life. Thinking of standing in the road at noon just for fun,,Just do it. Don't think about other people who are going to criticize you, since you are standing in the road at noon.

Don't Ever care about other peoples instead care about your life.

What if you do...If you don't like the movie that you are watching in theatre with friends...Just get out from there...Don't think what your friend thinks of you..Because this is your life..if you don't like something,,do not ever involve in that thing..

Nowadays Everyone thinking about future and having a question like...What will i do after 5 years...Will i have good career?

You will still be human after 5 years...Does Dogs think what i have to do tomorrow?? The answer is "No"..But still dog lives,it eats,it is doing whatever things that it thinks...

Why can't Humans be like this....The answer for this is we are having sixth sense...We are often using that sixth sense to make our life complicated...

Thinking of doing different jobs daily, do it. The ultimate aim of life is to live the life.So don't think i have to save money and build a house,marry a good girl.This is not life...If you are thinking like throwing money in the road, throw it...

Money is just for surveying in this stupid world. Does animals need money to survive...We created the stupid paper(money) by our sixth sense and makes life complicated...

I have to study well in school and college, so i can get a job where i can save money for future and spend those money in my last-days for exploring life.This is the dream for many persons in this stupid world.So strange explore life now itself... you fool

It is not guarantee that you will live tomorrow,Anything can happen.Suddenly Tsunami can kill you or even your bedroom fan can kill you....Then why the hell we are thinking about our future..

Live the present life...by doing things that we like.Don't complicate your life...If you Don't like this blog,You shouldn't have read it....
If you don't like to share this blog, Don't share it...

Home automation using IoT concept

In this blog I am going to convey how to automate your home. In this modern world we have to automate everything. If we press the button in our phone light has to be turned on /off. To do this, one has to follow three simple steps.
Step 1-Install and Configure Blynk App
Step 2-Downloading and Setting up Arduino IDE and Blynk Libraries
Step 3-Hardware Assembly

Installation and Configuration of Blynk App
Open Play store and download and install the Blynk App.Once the app is installed create a new account on Blynk and login using that.After logging in,create a new project by clicking ‘New Project'.Give name for your project. Select the hardware device as NodeMCU and select the connection as WIFI, and hit create.At this point Blynk will send an Auth token to your email id. We will use this ‘Auth token’ later in the tutorial to link our app with the NodeMCU. Now since I’m using a one channel relay, I’ll add 1 button on the blank project. To add a new button just click anywhere on the blank area and select button from the side menu that pops up. You can place the button anywhere on the screen.Click on the Button and give it a name. I’ll name it ‘light’ as I’ll use it to control the relay. Below the name, in the text-box select the pin as digital pin D3.

Downloading and Setting up Arduino IDE and Blynk Libraries
Download arduino IDE in https://www.arduino.cc/Download blynk libraries in https://www.blynk.cc/.Copy the blynk libraries and tools in the arduino library location.Connect the NodeMCU to your PC using a USB cable.Set up the Arduino IDE by
Tools > Port and make sure an appropriate port is selected
Tools > Board and select ‘NodeMCU 1.0 (ESP-12E Module)
Program your board by
Files > Examples > Blynk > Boards_WIFI > ESP8266_Standalone
In this code you have to do some modification
char auth[] = “YourAuthToken”
char ssid[] = “YourNetworkName”’
char pass[] = “YourPassword”’

Hardware Assembly
There are two types of connection has to be done to automate your home
Connect Node MCU with Relay
D3 to in1
gnd to gnd
Power up the relay by supplying 5 volt to it

Connect Relay with light or fan
one terminal of light or fan to NO
supply +ve to COM
motor -ve and supply -ve should be grounded
So, you can directly run your Blynk project from your phone and turn the light or fan on or off using the
buttons that we created in the app based on the notifications.We can connect fans,bulbs or any other electrical appliances that need to be automated to relay module

My final year project

In this blog i am going to convey how I did my first ever project.My project is to water the plants from anywhere on the world by the concept of IoT. Watering is done based on the condition of soil(dry or wet).To do this,one has to follow three simple steps.
Step 1-Install and Configure Blynk App
Step 2-Downloading and Setting up Arduino IDE and Blynk Libraries
Step 3-Hardware Assembly

Installation and Configuration of Blynk App
Open Play store and download and install the Blynk App.Once the app is installed create a new account on Blynk and login using that.After logging in,create a new project by clicking ‘New Project'.Give name for your project. Select the hardware device as NodeMCU and select the connection as WIFI, and hit create.At this point Blynk will send an Auth token to your email id. We will use this ‘Auth token’ later in the tutorial to link our app with the NodeMCU. Now since I’m using a one channel relay, I’ll add 1 button on the blank project. To add a new button just click anywhere on the blank area and select button from the side menu that pops up. You can place the button anywhere on the screen.Click on the Button and give it a name. I’ll name it ‘Motor’ as I’ll use it to control the relay. Below the name, in the text-box select the pin as digital pin D3. Click on Notification widget and eventor to notify whether the soil has to watered or not based on threshold.Use virtual pin v5 to set this.Click on display widget to display the readings of soil moisture continuously in app using pin v5

Downloading and Setting up Arduino IDE and Blynk Libraries
Download arduino IDE in https://www.arduino.cc/Download blynk libraries in https://www.blynk.cc/.Copy the blynk libraries and tools in the arduino library location.Connect the NodeMCU to your PC using a USB cable.Set up the Arduino IDE by
Tools > Port and make sure an appropriate port is selected
Tools > Board and select ‘NodeMCU 1.0 (ESP-12E Module)
Program your board by
Files > Examples > Blynk > Boards_WIFI > ESP8266_Standalone
In this code you have to do some modification
char auth[] = “YourAuthToken”
char ssid[] = “YourNetworkName”’
char pass[] = “YourPassword”’
int s=analogRead(A0);
Blynk.virtualWrite(v5,s);

Hardware Assembly
There are three types of connection has to be done to water the plants.
Connect Node MCU with Soil moisture sensor
3.3v to vcc
gnd to gnd
A0 to A0
After connecting insert the probe into soil for sensing.It will sense and feed the data to app using v5 pin. There is no need to give supply separately to it.It will get powered up through node mcu

Connect Node MCU with Relay
D3 to in1
gnd to gnd
Power up the relay by supplying 5 volt to it

Connect Relay with Motor
motor +ve to NO
supply +ve to COM
motor -ve and supply -ve should be grounded
So, you can directly run your Blynk project from your phone and turn the motor on or off using the
buttons that we created in the app based on the notifications.

Don't give up easily

Life always seems to present us with numerous challenges and problems.It gives us apples when we desire oranges.But do not avoid those oranges take it and wait for your apple.One day you will get it.
But what you should to get that apple is important-
"First of all have the habit of waiting"
Many of us don't have the habit of waiting.We want results immediately.If we are not getting success for our hard-work,we will stop doing the hard-work or our level of doing the work will reduce.If you have waited and achieved one thing-that will give you more happiness than other things that you have achieved

Second thing that you should do to achieve success is-
"Believe in yourself"
Everybody has talent and potential to do great things.If you believe in yourself and do your work consistently you will get reward.But try to remember the first thing-You have to wait until your hard-work wins.Self belief is important...

Final important thing that you should do is-
"Never Give up"
The only valid excuse you have to give up is if you are dead. As long as you are alive you have the choice to keep trying until you finally succeed. Right now there are many people who are in a worse situation and environment than you are right now. Are you thinking about giving up running 5 miles a week? Think about the people who are unable to even walk and how much they would give to be able to run 5 miles every day.

The idea behind blogging about this concept came from this video guys.Try to watch it.Anything can happen.Success can knock your door from anyway.But what you have to do is-
Wait
Believe
Never give up
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0Gb2fvjKYo
You are stronger than you think. One little setback is not enough to stop you from achieving your goals. Neither are 10 or 100 or 1000 setbacks.

Why failure is essential in life?

Success is meaningless without failure, Just like happiness without sorrow.

You never know how much desperately you need success until you have failed very badly.So try to fail and learn from it and now then you can taste the success....

Somebody are feeling depressed while facing more failures(including me in the past),but i came to know if you face continuous failure you are becoming master in that field.

I remember the poem that i have studied in my 10th standard-the beautiful lines in that poem really touched me...

"If u can meet both triumph and disaster

And treat those two the same"

-Rudyard Kipling

The meaning for the line is you have to treat both success and defeat in same manner.

If you are really depressed then try to google about "Nandha kumar IRS".

He is an amazing personality.When i try to know about him i was really motivated.From then i am eagerly facing failure.He is a school drop out who had turned civil service topper.

“He was a dyslexic and branded a slow learner in his school. He was forced to step out of the system and create an alternative environment for himself to study further. He cannot rot-learn still and have to understand a concept to apply it. In a way, his weakness has been his strength and this is something he prescribe to his students as well,”

says Nanda kumar IRS- who finished schooling privately and took up work at a mechanic shed, tea and lottery shop to support himself through his college days.Then, pushed by his friend, he tried for the civil service exams.

Try to watch this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AU2-m3UZ3pk

Fall seven times, stand up eight.

So turn your weakness into your strength.Face more failures continuously,analyse why you had fail,eradicate the mistakes and finally you will reach your goal.

Try to do things based on your interest or talent that you had naturally.If you are not able to identify your talent,try to do things rather than simply sitting.

Running in a wrong path is better than simply sitting and feeling depressed that i had no talents and i am facing more failures.Run Run ,don't QUIT.........

PAIN OF MIDDLE CLASS PEOPLE

Welcome Guys,Today i had faced one interesting character and had conversation with that character.It forced me to write blog about the pain that middle class people feels everyday.As i also belongs to that class i am able to feel the pain that we possess and i am able to express it to all.
If you try to classify peoples based on their economy in this world they will fall in three categories.One will be "RICH"-who can live their life quite easily.The other one will be "POOR"-who lacks sufficient money to live a normal life in a society.There is another category who falls in between them called as "MIDDLE CLASS".

You can think that only poor people is facing problems more than anyone.But the truth is MIDDLE CLASS peoples are facing more pains and problems.First thing that a middle class people has to do is SACRIFICE.They has to sacrifice everything which is above their line.Even if they likes them they has to sacrifice it...

If they are going to purchase dress first word they will say to salesman is-Show the dress which are below certain amount.Even if they like one dress which is more costlier than their budget they will ignore it and they will buy dress within their budget.In this situation they had ignored their interest....
We all talk about Anitha who had committed suicide because that she is not able to achieve her goal(DOCTOR) because of her poverty.But there are so many Anitha in this middle class category who had sacrificed their goal or interest for the purpose of family.
They will have so many wishes and interests.Even in love they are the one who is suffering a lot.They will also love but they will not show their emotions and love to the one whom they are loving.They will destroy all their love inside their heart itself because of their commitments.

Even if they wish to go for movie and they also had money they will not go because they will think that i can save this money for future use.Always they will be in calculative mind.
So their interests are destroyed everyday.In my point of view if you are not able to fulfill your interest you are not living happily.But all middle class peoples are sacrificing their interest and they will say we are happy.....Is it true?Are they happy?It will be a million-dollar question.

One reason for unemployment

The main problem that a youngster facing right now is finding a decent job.There are so many reasons for this unemployment problem.

In this blog i am going to share my little experience on it...

I am a final year student studying in reputed college near thiruvarur district.

In our college software related companies will come and hire students from our college.

Unfortunately I belong to electronics and communication(ECE)department.

I don't know any programming language.

My ambition in life is to become an good engineer and also to become a good worker for my company where i am going to work.

So far I had attended 10 interviews from various software companies.

But i had not been selected in any of those companies.

But i had gained experience from all the interviews that i have faced.

In my short experience i have found the reason for unemployment.

There are so many reasons for it.

FIRST REASON-Everyone is going in the same path.

Whatever the field it is.If my friend is going to the interview,then i am also attending that interview even though i did not have passion on it.It creates the competition for the job and the person who are loving to do the job also had the chance of loosing their passionate job

SECOND REASON-Selected candidates are competing with us.

In my college there are some students who have been selected in one company(x) but they are also coming for other companies and getting selected in that company also.But what they do, they will go and work only in one company.It results a unemployment problems

The solution for this is-

To decide your passionate career by yourself and proceed towards it and not get distracted by others.

All the company has to formulate the rules that if the person is selected in any company he should not attend any more interviews

All these are based on my short experience....

Animal Language and its perception for Humans

Like Humans, Animals have the capacity to communicate between them and also they have the ability to convey info to humans.
How Humans speak-
Human and animals both have the prerequisite organs that produce sound, such as lungs, throat, voice box, lips and tongue.

The difference lies in the movement and relative position of these organs that make us to speak. Humans have Longer throat and smaller mouth that is helpful for them to speak.

Speech is product of breath control i.e humans are able to control speed which lungs release air.
Animals lack the flexibility of the vocal tract to produce complex sounds that resemble human language.

But they are still communicating with us

One typical example is
***Frogs Use Sounds To Communicate
Frogs have big eardrums which is helping them to communicate via sound(croak).The sound waves produced by frog is ultrasonic wave.

Humans can't hear anything above about 20 kilohertz range but frogs average at around 38 kilohertz.

So it is beyond the range of the human ear. They can only be heard by other frogs.
So animals are communicating to us we are not able to decode it.

Many scientists are trying to decode that...

It is all about frequency..
Frequency range: typical adult male-85 to 180 Hz(voice)
Frequency range: typical adult female-165 to 255 Hz(voice)
Frequency range: young people-20 Hz to 20 kHz(hearing)

But
Frequency range:Dog-23 to 54 kHz(voice)
Frequency range:Dog-55 Hz to 79 kHz(hearing)

The range of animals such as dog is exceeding our range.

That's why we are not able to hear or understand their sound

Light can be stored or not

Before going for an answer first of all we should know the properties of light.

the properties which light possesses are

*Reflects: bounces off and goes along a different direction. This applies to opaque objects like walls or mirrors.

*Passes through: Goes right through the object, such as glass.

*Gets absorbed: and become released as heat energy.

YES. Light can be stored

Convert the light into something that can be stored and then convert that back into light when need it.
EXAMPLE :PHOTO-VOLTAIC CELL

It is a semiconductor diode that has the capacity to convert visible light into direct current
But then another question arises i.e

Can we store light as light itself?
The answer is YES.

Suppose if we had a box that was made of material that is 100% reflective inside.

In reality, even extremely reflective things are at best ~99% reflective. That means each time the light in the box hits the wall, it is 99% of its former intensity.

The rest is lost through absorption.
So practically we cannot store light as light itself

IF WE DESIGN A MATERIAL WHICH IS 100% REFLECTIVE WE WILL BECOME A Millionaire

Affection on various relations

Love and affection are words used more or less to show warm, positive feelings directed to individuals; but they may encompass attachments to pets, institutions, things, activities, and ideas. Where differentiation is made, love usually implies more intense feeling than affection, or love may be restricted to feeling.

Both Love and Affection varies accordingly for different persons as humans have different perceptions.Someone will show their affection in a positive manner but some will show in a negative manner

TOWARD PARENTS:
Always they are the first one to love us even before we were born in this world.They are both struggling to make their child healthy as well as a good person.Their affection remains same even after their death.They will show their affection both +ve and -ve manner.

POSITIVE: To encourage them

NEGATIVE: While they are distracted

TOWARD FRIENDS:
They are the one who will show affection towards us even they do not know anything about our family details.Once they are bonded their relation remains until our death.They are the one who will help us in bad situation and they are the one who will listen our problem and give better solutions

TOWARDS SOMEONE:
But people won't die if their parents and friends die.But they will when their someone(soul partner-person who they are loving) refuses their affection or for their death.What it is...

Relation with parents and friends are overtaken by someone.This is not fair.If anybody say that i will die for her/him,then at the same time they have to be ready for dying for their parents and friends also.

In my point of view we have to show or express affection equally to all relationship.

Empowerment of women in this modern world

Women's empowerment has become a significant topic of discussion in different era's.While talking about this everyone will focus about the role of women in society alone.But we have to consider their role in house;why because women empowerment not means that they have to achieve,compete with men rather they should live their own life by not changing for anyone.

One day Indra Krishnamoorthy was very happy to inform that he had become CEO of PEPSI-CO to her mother but her mother replied that it's ok Go and buy milk from the shop.It showed us two things

1.From the small background she had become CEO

2.whatever the position we may be, we are under our Angel(அம்மா)who live her own life

Everyone will say that a girl should be brave but in my point of view saying like that is also a dominations.Because a girl should have their own rights or unique character.Some may be silent; let they be.They should be like themselves
I am not going to talk about Kiran bedi,P.V.Sindhu,Mithali Raj,Mary Kom rather i am going to talk about those who are living their own life in house itself.I am going to share those persons who crossed my life;

PAST

Women did not have decision making authority in home.Even they did not have rights to speak in home for the purpose of making decisions.They did not have rights to choose their career,life partner...They are forced by someone to act in different situation.
PRESENT:

But nowadays it is not like that.They are freely choosing their career,life partner.Without consulting them no decisions are made in the home.Even now in SMART CARD SYSTEM they have been given preference over men(குடும்ப தலைவி ).

They had become Doctors,Teachers,Scientists,entrepreneurs,politicians,lawyers and so on.

First person is my Mother She is not an employee rather she is a house wife.She is not a graduate but thinks like graduate.She had taken many decisions in our house surprisingly nothing went wrong.My father will take important decisions by the help of my mother.So my mother has decision making authority.The role of my mother in our home is really amazing.

Second person is my Sister she is studying 12th standard.she has full authority of deciding her career.we are all giving equal rights to her if we are not giving equal rights in any situation
she will demand her rights

I think in this modern world there is no need of women empowerment.Because Around 99.99% understand their rights and power.They become independent.Very few are unchanged.In my point of view if a woman do things that she is liking by herself , she don't need any empowerment.